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Notes from building Nudge
What we’re learning about reminders, timing, and getting things done.
What we’re learning about reminders, timing, and getting things done.
Seven tools for seven different reasons you might be stuck: unclear tasks, distractions, weak reminders, or needing someone else there.
The useful app depends on why you are stuck. These seven take different approaches: working beside someone, breaking down the task, starting a timer, blocking distractions, or following up later.
You have already decided to do the task. It is on your list. You may even have the right tab open. But ten minutes pass and you still have not begun.
That is a different problem from forgetting. Another reminder may help if the task slipped your mind. It will not necessarily help if you are looking at the task and cannot make the move from “I should do this” to actually doing it.
For some people with ADHD, that transition is especially difficult. It can also happen because a task is vague, unpleasant, too large, or competing with something that already has your attention. You do not need an ADHD diagnosis to have trouble starting.
The apps below do not solve the same problem. Pick the section that sounds most like what happens when you get stuck.
Focusmate pairs you with another person for a 25, 50, or 75-minute video session. At the start, you each say what you plan to do. Then you work quietly and check in again at the end.
This is a good fit when you can work once someone else is present, but struggle to begin alone. Booking a session also gives the task a real start time. “Work on the presentation today” becomes “open the presentation at 2:00 while my Focusmate session is running.”
The trade-off is the format. You need to book a slot, join a call, and keep your camera on. If video with a stranger makes you more tense than accountable, try one of the less social options below.
Goblin Tools is useful when the task on your list is not really a task yet. Its Magic ToDo tool can turn something broad, such as “sort out health insurance,” into smaller actions. You can adjust how much detail it produces and break down any step again.
The generated list is a starting point, not a plan you have to obey. Delete irrelevant steps, add details the tool could not know, and stop breaking things down once the next action is obvious.
Use it when you keep rereading a task because you do not know what “done” involves. It is less useful when the next action is already clear and you simply do not want to do it.
Llama Life puts a timer beside one task at a time. You can give each item a duration, see when the list should finish, and start with a timer as short as one minute. It also has a break-it-down feature for larger tasks.
This works well when an open-ended task feels heavier than a bounded one. “Do expenses” has no visible end. “Find the three receipts for five minutes” is easier to enter.
The timer does not remove the work, and estimating every item can become another form of planning. Keep the setup small: one task, one short timer, start.
FLOWN runs live group focus sessions. Its current options include facilitated one-hour and two-hour sessions, community sessions, and a 24-hour drop-in room.
It suits people who want other people around but do not want the intensity of a one-to-one call. A facilitator handles the structure, and everyone works on their own task.
Scheduled sessions are useful if you need commitment in advance. They are less useful if your work arrives unpredictably or you want to start immediately, although the drop-in room covers some of that gap.
Forest is a focus timer built around staying off distracting apps. You plant a virtual tree when a session starts. It grows while you remain focused. On supported devices, allowlists and blocking features can make leaving the task harder.
Forest is a good fit when you know exactly what to do but keep reaching for your phone before you settle into it. The visual record also gives repeated focus sessions a simple shape without requiring a large task-management system.
It will not clarify a vague task or check whether the work was completed. It is mainly a timer and distraction barrier.
Finch turns goals and self-care routines into actions that care for a virtual pet. Completing a goal gives the pet energy and earns in-app rewards. Goals can repeat daily or weekly, and you can choose one as the goal of the day.
This can make small, recurring actions easier to approach, particularly when a normal task list feels clinical or punishing. It is a better fit for “drink water,” “take medication,” or “put clothes in the washer” than for managing a complicated work project.
Finch uses streaks, rewards, and an emotional attachment to the pet. Some people like that. Others feel worse when a game starts reflecting unfinished tasks back at them. You will know fairly quickly which group you are in.
Nudge is the app we make. It is for the case where a task matters, but one notification is easy to dismiss and forget.
You add a task, and Nudge chooses reminder times using your calendar, usual active hours, and quiet hours. If the task stays open, it can check back later rather than treating the first notification as the end of the job. It works on iPhone, Android, and the web.
Nudge is useful when timing and follow-up are the missing pieces. It will not sit on a video call with you, block social media, or reliably turn a vague project into the right first step. If one of those is the real block, use the tool made for it. You can also combine them: use Goblin Tools to find the first action, then Nudge to bring it back at a workable time.
Look at the last task you failed to start, not the kind of person you hope to become.
Try one tool on one real task. If it does not change the first five minutes, remove it. A larger collection of productivity apps is not the goal. Starting the thing is.
Persistent difficulty starting tasks can affect work, school, health, and relationships. Software may provide structure, but it cannot diagnose ADHD or replace professional care. The NICE ADHD guideline covers assessment and treatment options in the UK; guidance differs by country.
For a difficult task today, another person, a written first step, or a five-minute start may be more useful than installing anything. The app should reduce a specific obstacle. If you cannot name the obstacle it removes, it probably does not belong on your phone.
Nudge reads your calendar and learns your patterns, then holds each reminder until a moment you can use.